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Radical Love for Troubled Times

What does it mean to practice radical love in a turbulent world? How do we safeguard our well-being and also relate to others open-heartedly? Sharon Salzberg shares practical wisdom from her most recent book, Real Life.

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In 1976, researchers Ellen Langer and Judith Rodin conducted an experiment, giving houseplants to two groups of nursing home residents. They told half of these elderly people that the plants were theirs to care for: They had to pay close attention to their plants’ needs for water and sunlight, and they had to respond carefully to those needs. The researchers told the other half of the residents that their plants were theirs to enjoy, but that they did not have to take care of them; the nursing staff would care for the plants.

At the end of a year, the researchers compared the two groups of elders. The residents who had been asked to care for their plants were living longer than the norm, were much healthier, and were more oriented toward and connected to their world. The other residents, those who had plants but did not have to stay responsive to them, simply reflected the norms for people their age in longevity, health, alertness, and engagement with the world.

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There were other day-to-day events where some of the residents were given choices and some control over decisions and others were not. The study has usually been described as being about choice and control. From the first time I heard of it, though, I thought of it as being about the enlivening power of connection, of loving attention, of caring.

It seems that plants and people share similar traits when it comes to surviving and flourishing. You can go into most any plant store and ask for plants for your home that will survive with very little attention. Spider plants, aloe vera, ZZ plants, and many succulents famously survive a great deal of neglect. People go on long vacations and find these plants living when they return, while all the others have died off. Of course, if you do decide to give these plants some attention, they will not just survive. They will flourish.

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